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November 6th, 2024
Shopping Addiction
We all know someone who loves a good shopping spree, and many of us have joked about “retail therapy” as a quick pick-me-up. But for those struggling with shopping addiction, this usually harmless indulgence can become a serious issue that spirals beyond all control. With the rise of online shopping, shopping addiction is becoming more common and is now believed to affect up to 16% of UK people. The consequences of shopping addiction go far beyond the financial repercussions, potentially wrecking your happiness, health and future if left unchecked.
What is shopping addiction?
Shopping addiction, also called “oniomania” or compulsive buying disorder, is when shopping starts to feel like something you have to do, even when it’s causing problems in your life. It can create an overwhelming urge to shop, even if that means going into debt or hiding what you’ve bought from your loved ones.
Like other forms of behavioural addiction, shopping addiction is surprisingly similar to substance use disorders. When you are addicted to shopping, the first few moments after making a purchase can give you a rush, almost like a drug high. But just like with drugs or alcohol, this feeling doesn’t last, and once the thrill wears off, you may be left feeling guilty, unsatisfied or even panicked about how much you’ve spent.
After a while, these negative feelings give way once more to intense cravings, and you start buying things again. The problem is that no amount of shopping can fill the void that is driving your shopping addiction in the first place. Instead, it can quickly lead to a cycle of regret, financial strain and ruined relationships.
What are the telltale shopping addiction symptoms?
As with any form of addiction, spotting shopping addiction symptoms early can help you nip the problem in the bud before it gets out of hand. If you are worried that you are losing control over your spending habits, here are some warning signs of a shopping addiction to be aware of:
- The urge to shop takes up all your thoughts and energy
- Hitting the shops or browsing online stores whenever you’re feeling down, stressed or bored
- Shopping is becoming the only thing that seems to cheer you up when you’re upset
- Hiding your shopping bags or deliveries from your partner, family or friends because you’re worried about their reaction
- Maxing out credit cards, running through your savings or getting into debt because of compulsive buying
- Your shopping habits causing arguments with your partner or other loved ones
- Not being able to stop shopping even though you are aware of these problems
If these warning signs of shopping addiction are echoing your experience, it may be time to seek help before things escalate.
Why is shopping addictive to some people?
Shopping addiction often develops from a complex mix of emotional needs, social pressures and sometimes even genetic factors. Each person who becomes addicted to shopping has their own unique combination of these factors that can turn a simple shopping trip into an uncontrollable habit:
What are the dangers of being addicted to shopping?
Shopping addiction may seem like a relatively harmless vice at first, but it can creep into every corner of your life. Here are some of the dangers of shopping addiction and how it can turn your world upside down:
Financial ruin
One of the most immediate and severe consequences of shopping addiction is the financial fallout. As your spending spirals out of control, you might get into enormous credit card debt, drain your savings or even take out loans you can’t repay. The mounting debt can lead to bankruptcy and, in extreme cases, financial ruin and homelessness.
Relationship breakdowns
When shopping becomes your main focus, it can seriously harm your relationships. Your loved ones might need help understanding why you are always buying things, especially if it is putting a strain on your finances. Constant arguments about money can drive a wedge between you and your partner, children or friends, leading to heartbreak, separation or even divorce.
Health consequences
It might sound surprising, but shopping addiction can take a serious toll on your health. The constant anxiety and stress over money and strained relationships can manifest physically, leading to headaches, high blood pressure and digestive issues. Emotionally, the highs and lows of shopping addiction can plunge you into depression, worsen your anxiety and leave you feeling guilty all the time.
How do you stop shopping addiction?
Breaking free from shopping addiction is about addressing the deeper issues that drive your addiction and building a new, healthier relationship with money and shopping. At Oasis Runcorn, this involves two key stages:
1. Shopping addiction rehab
Shopping addiction does not create physical withdrawal symptoms, so a detox is not usually required. Shopping rehab, however, gives you the chance to press pause on life’s chaos and take a close look at what is driving your compulsive shopping. At Oasis Runcorn, this is done through a range of therapies which will allow you to uncover and better manage the emotions and triggers that fuel your shopping addiction.
Aftercare for shopping addiction
Shopping rehab is just the beginning, but the real test often comes when you are back in the world. That is why Oasis Runcorn offers an aftercare programme that includes free weekly group therapy sessions for a whole year. These sessions help you keep momentum as you face emerging challenges post-rehab.
Get help for shopping addiction today
Shopping addiction can feel like a runaway train but you have the power to stop it. At Oasis Runcorn, we’re here to help you put the brakes on, regain control and find joy beyond the checkout. Don’t wait for things to spiral any further – reach out today and take the first step toward a brighter, more balanced future.
Frequently Asked Questions
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